"Belief about Families"

      Mary Pipher's essay discusses the notion of family in today's society and how different the definition of family is now as opposed to back in "traditional times". Pipher defines the difference between a biological family and a formed family; how they each bring a certain strength and flaw to a person's life. A biological family is important because you are tied together through  blood. They are the ones that most likely help you out when things are going bad for you. A formed family may not come through for you and can easily walk out of your life. The bond is always stronger in a biological families " blood is thicker then water". Pipher however doesn't believe the problem is the family institution but rather "commitment and inclusiveness" (409). She believes that what a person defines family to be is the most important. Today's society has a big impact on the way we perceive our own family. For example Pipher say's "when teenagers most need their parents they are encouraged to distance themselves from them". Society in Pipher's eyes has showed children to grow up  rude and arrogant. Money and pop culture have become more important and influence people's belief's tremendously.
       I liked Pipher's essay I thought it brought up some really good points about family, and it brought some awareness to me. I felt that she thought formed families were more important then biological family's. I personally think they are both really important. There have been times where my formed family was more important then my blood related family, but I do see how even in that my blood is still there for me after all the down falls. I liked that she said "What tiospaye offers and what family offers is a place that all members can belong to regardless of merit". I agree with this statement.